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This is also an opportune time because during this 2008 Fall/Winter shopping season in particular, there is a great selection of quality goods in stores and online that are on sale because of the financial squeeze store buyers have suddenly found themselves in. As a result, this is a great opportunity for consumers. Another shopping green light for the professional this season is the variety of staple pieces essential to every businesswoman’s wardrobe. Combine the need to enhance your presentation with the steals and deals at the stores this Fall/Winter 2008 season and you’ve got it made!
Here are 5 Ways to Shop Smarter:
A major part of being a savvy shopper is doing the prep-work. This includes having a clear and thorough understanding of:
Be a mindful shopper:
It’s often best to shop alone. This allows you more of an opportunity to relax, focus and think about whether an item really works on you; to recall what you already have in your closet; to stay on course and to learn to trust your aesthetic decisions. This doesn’t mean that you have to go solo all of the time or that you can’t ask for the opinion or support of others; it just means that you must begin to take your mission seriously rather than turning it into a frivolous shopping experience. Looking your best is an ongoing process that is actually an evolution of you and your individual life and the way in which your personal style reiterates your evolving attributes and aspirations rather than an insatiable quest for outside approval.
Having a set budget will not only support your bank account but will also increase your self confidence by holding yourself financially accountable:
To eliminate excess waste in your closet, budget and peace of mind you must finish what you started:
In spite of the fact that financial times are constrained for so many, this is NOT the time to hide!!! It is the time to set yourself apart from the pack, to have your personal presentation immediately tell people something about yourself and to go forth confidently. To look and feel your best, set a clear intention to be a productive conscientious shopper. Be purposeful. Know what you want ahead of time, the best place to get it, and the specific reason you need it. Do your homework, set up a plan, stick to your budget, and follow-through to complete your objectives. Be secure in your aesthetic abilities to ascertain your best self and don’t forget to have FUN!!!
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It’s Monday morning and you’re already running late for work when you realize you forgot to pull out your Fall/Winter clothes.The weather is definitely cooler now (see my previous post, “Global Warming and the Transitional Wardrobe”). Panic starts to set in because you don’t know what to wear and you need to figure it out fast to get out the door! A skirt catches your eye that may work but you remember that it only really looks good with your boots and you forgot to clean them after last winter. Plus you have a meeting today and those boots don’t give the exact impression you wanted to set and you have a dinner scheduled afterwards with no time to change. Ugh, what to do? You end up throwing on…whatever, which leaves you feeling disheveled and, consequently, just a little less confident all day long. Does this scenario sound familiar? Sometimes this state of affairs goes on a lot longer at the beginning of each season than planned. Why don’t you give yourself a break and set aside a time to finally pull out those Fall/Winter clothes and organize your closet to make this season – and your mornings – go more smoothly? You owe it to yourself.
Organizing your wardrobe closet doesn’t have to feel like you’re going to get lost in a black hole especially if you break it down into achievable, success producing steps. Here are some suggestions:
Determine a Timeline
Decide how long it should realistically take you to complete your goal. Of course this depends on how long it’s been since you’ve cleaned out your closet(s) and drawers, how much stuff you have and how determined you are to stay focused. For instance, assuming it’s been a while let’s say you decide that eight hours is the absolute most time that you are willing to dedicate to this project. The eight hours can be divided up into a multitude of ways such as two weekend days, two hours each work night for one week, one hour each work night for two weeks or 15 minutes per night and one weekend. Customize a timeline that works best for you and your schedule.
Set a Date
After you decide on a timeline then set a firm date. Make an appointment with yourself and, if necessary, bring onboard a helpful friend, family member or skilled professional to help you meet your goal.
Gather Supplies
It may be wise to hold off on purchasing more hangers or storage containers. At this stage you really don’t know what you realistically need and what will work best unless you want to purchase items and return the surplus. Do have on hand large trash bags and a notepad and pen. Plus, decide where you specifically want to donate excess clothes.
Store Previous Seasonal Clothes
Collect all Spring/Summer clothes that you do no plan to utilize during the winter months. Check the closet(s), drawers, dry cleaner’s and laundry basket. Before storing items make sure that they are worthy to store. Items that are worn out or permanently damaged throw away. Any items/outfits that you are tired of, did not wear, or that still have tags on them, this is an opportune time to decide whether it may be best to donate, sell or return them. This will not only dramatically ease this process next Spring, it will also increase storage space. Once this task is complete, store clean warm weather clothes in ideally breathable cotton canvas storage bags like here, here and here; hang them in another closet or hang them in the back of your active wardrobe closet. The idea is to keep your garments easily accessible and in the best possible condition, but to get them out of your line of sight. This will allow for less overwhelm and more interest when you revisit them the following season.
Address Current Season Clothes
Determine Strategy: 3out/3in Method
A common strategy is to pull everything out of your closet and place it all on top of your bed. However, this method may be a visual overload for some and can create unnecessary anxiety. Plus, depending upon which customized timeline you chose, you may not be able to tackle the whole closet/wardrobe all at once. Better yet, start with keeping everything in the closet and drawers as is and start by pulling out three pieces that you really don’t like. Place them in a donation or sell pile. Remember to keep the items on hangers. Many donation stations find it easier to stock new donations when items are still on hangers or, if you are going to sell an item, it’s easier to take a photograph or bring them to a consignment store while they are still on hangers as well. And, of course, damaged goods can go in the trash. Next, choose three pieces you really love and place them at the very front of the closet to begin creating a ‘try-on’ section. Ideally, this new section should be organized by coats, blazers, dresses, tops, skirts, slacks, jeans, etc. as you place them there. Repeat these steps: Three out; three ‘try-on’. Sort accordingly. You can continue with the 3out/3in method or choose now to go full force and tackle the rest of your wardrobe. Start at one end of the closet, go through each piece and make your way to the other end. Adding to the trash, donate, sell, or ‘try-on’ sections. It’s helpful at this stage to give yourself another customized timeline. For example, allow yourself half an hour to do the initial sorting. Or you may need longer, but the idea here is to create a sense of urgency to encourage yourself not to over-think your decisions. Trust yourself more to make the right choices. Your instincts will appropriately guide you to look your best.
Follow-Through: Trash, Sell, Donate, Try-on
Once you’ve completed going through every piece of clothing in your closet(s) and drawers now it’s time to follow-through with each section: trash, sell, donate and ‘try-on’. You can do these in any order but you may want to get as many sections out of your line of sight (with the idea that you may be adding to them) because too much stuff around you can feel visually overwhelming and possibly stir up unnecessary stress.
Let’s start with the trash section. That’s easy. Throw it out!
Next, you may want to look at the sell section and see if it’s worth the time and effort. It may be worth taking only a few designer brand pieces that are in excellent condition to a local consignment store or sell them on eBay. Then add the rest to the donate pile. Make sure to give yourself a due date.
The donation pile should be plentiful. Right now more than ever there are a number of people in great need. Help them out. You won’t miss it and if you do, you’ll get over it. Now, place the items to be donated immediately in the trunk of your car and out of your sight. Set a date and location within the week to drop them off or have them picked up. Don’t backtrack; stay on course and follow-through with this commitment to yourself.
This might be a really good time to take a substantial break so as to start with fresh eyes and a fresh perspective before you tackle the ‘try-on’ section. Again there are different tactics to approach this ‘try-on’ section as well. Many people skip this step but don’t skip it! When you don’t follow through, what ends up happening is that numerous pieces of unworn or ill-fitting clothing get left in your active wardrobe limiting your personal style. To get started, pull your three favorite pieces and then pull the items you like to wear with it to create an outfit. Next, try the outfit on and look at yourself in a full-length mirror or ideally a 3-way mirror. Look at the outfit from every angle and sense whether you feel fabulous in this outfit. You really need to be rational here and not emotional. Make sure every piece in the outfit answer positive for the following 5 questions:
If yes! Then each piece is a keeper and if no, then donate or sell the item. Also, if a particular piece of the outfit works and another doesn’t then write down what you need to search for at a store to make it fabulous. Repeat this process with the other two favorite items. Have a discerning eye, be focused, be confident and take breaks!!! It can be extremely difficult to objectively look at ourselves and, consequently, it can be exhausting. If it’s helpful, don’t hesitate to get some aid from a family member, a friend or a professional. Your hard work will pay off. After you are done with these three items and their corresponding outfit match-ups, select another three favorites and so on. Then see what’s left and make sure it meets the above criteria as well.
Finishing Up
After you’ve taken out the trash, gathered a few items to sell, filled your trunk with items to be donated and tried on and categorized the rest of your winter wardrobe, you will be left with an active wardrobe that encompasses successful outfits that you can put together with ease and confidence!
Congrats! And you’re ahead of the game this year. Sometimes taking the time to take care of ourselves can be challenging. This process can be really taxing for some, but not only will you experience immediate benefits but long term ones as well. It is better to have an effective relevant wardrobe with fewer clothes that you feel more confident wearing rather than a closet full of “shoulda woulda couldas”. There are a variety of ways to help get you and your wardrobe ready for Fall but hopefully the above suggestions can help get you get moving. The goal should be to have a wardrobe storage system the really works for YOU!
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It feels almost sacrilegious to harp on Sarah Jessica Parker. She’s perhaps the most notable present day female style icon in the United States. Her sense of style is so multifaceted, admirable and authentic to her. Yet her hairstyle for the evening launch of The Sex and the City DVD release party in NYC just a few weeks ago was a trend completely not suitable for her. Was she paying homage to the beehive style that Sarah Palin wears so often? Perhaps it was a throwback to Audrey Hepburn in Breakfast at Tiffany’s? Due to the timing and amount of coverage on Sarah Palin’s coif, the former seems more likely. If this is the case then Sarah Jessica Parker is a prime example of a woman allowing herself to become a slave to fashion, a description that has plagued women for years. It has had negative connotations and is used when women defer to others in terms of fashion. I am sure Sarah Jessica (nor her hairstylist) had any intention of devaluing her, yet by abandoning her own sense of style and adapting to a fad and one that is questionable at that, this is exactly what happened!
This recent example is a clear reminder that staying current with trends can be fun and plausible as long as they are age-appropriate, flattering, career appropriate and comfortable. SJP is definitely off the hook because she so often does it so right. So, let’s just thank her for reminding us that paying attention to what our personal appearance says about us is relevant and to also make sure that it coincides with what we want it to say about us. In this case, ‘Thanks, but no thanks’!
Have you ever got caught up in a fashion trend that really wasn’t a good look for you?
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